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Rachael Varca's avatar

Whoo, boy, did that generate a lot of thoughts. I don't generally comment, because as much as I enjoy your work, it is controversial. That being said, I appreciated the change of pace here, and as always, you provide a thoughtful, and well-reasoned set of arguments.

That being said, I'll try to condense my thoughts to a few points.

1. On an overarching social contract about morality and what we agree on.

We cannot even agree on the biological basis of sex as a society, as a warring cultural issue. Most people demand "mind your own business", but to impose a shared set of values means having an honest discussion about which values we extol, requiring honest discussion. Our country is too large, as well as regionally and religiously diverse. Do we go with east, west coast, midwest, southern values? Lower class, working class, middle class, or upper class ones? Do we impose secular views? What sides are there? Which arguments? Who argues for one group or another? We're too big to have an agora or other form of public square, especially given the information overload related to all forms of media and the ever increasing sphere that is the internet.

You have at various points intoned that you're agnostic (?) of some flavor, I think?

If we had religious morality to determine codes of conduct, everyone, even the religious, would scream "theocracy! no kings!" Protestants would have an issue with Catholicism, because "they're idolaters who worship the Pope", Catholics have issues of doctrine and execution around the varies copy-paste watered down versions of Protestant Christianty 2.0, whilst Judaism has its secular, religious, more orthodox, and zealous extremes; or do we go the route of Hinduism, Buddhist, or, Islam, in it's various forms?

To your point, it would take centuries of distillation, as the Brits have done, to reach that conclusion--but the democratizing effect of internet information distribution has scuttled any real discussion, and if we throw in AI, such discussion is near impossible, as not only can we not determine if what we're seeing is legitimate, but we would struggle to determine legitimacy in good faith arguments. Did the speaker do their own research and reason it through themselves, or did they rely on a computer to do their thinking for them?

2. There's an interesting theory I subscribe to that's a little out of left field. There's a therapist by the name of Elaine Aron who has pioneered some research related to the concept of "the highly sensitive person"; her basic argument is based in genetics. As there are different environmental adaptions in species, there are different survival strategies. Most of your population is non-sensitive; they're the cows eating the grass and not noticing subtle stimuli. Your HSPs are wired at a genetic level to process information more deeply, and because they struggle to block out more of that information, on many levels (color, sound, temperature, light) it stresses out their nervous systems and makes them more "sensitive". I read through the neurological studies she did and the science is fairly substantial to support her argument; your HSP cows, or any other species, being more sensitive, is more likely to notice the wolf or lion in the grass and alert the herd to the danger. Her theory was this: your HSP types in humans stayed in Europe; they take safer, more calculated risks than the rest of the population due to that hypersensitivity and deeper processing in the brain; I'm safe here, why go abroad where there are dangers I can't account for?

Susan Cain in her book "Quiet: The Secret Power of Introverts" also discusses American society being more extroverted; most spaces are designed for extroverts with higher levels of stimulation, loud music, open spaces in buildings where sound bounces and magnifies--things which both introverts and HSPs struggle with because they have lower thresholds for both dopamine production and extra-sensory stimulation.

With all that explanation in mind, basically, the high-risk, high-reward seeking extroverts utilizing that adaptive strategy, were the more likely ones to strike out in colonizing America (and other parts of the world); as an adaptive strategy, and living in Europe where by the time the Renaissance period approached, most of the land was already owned by lords and Kings, and had been over-hunted, moving to the New World made sense: abundant resources and no over-arching existing hierarchy to determine how the rules were played. Your crazy risk-taking extroverts, who appreciate competition and aren't the most cooperative, have fueled a society that is as dog-eat-dog as you can get in the US. I'm not saying it's the right theory, but adds I think, some support to your hunter-gatherer explanation, if we're considering survival strategies and the subgroups that make up who, how, what, and where populations go/behave.

The US is designed for extroverts; I'm biased as a strong introvert. Our culture is designed to foster FOMO and go-go-go, something that extroverts, with a higher tolerance and threshold for dopamine, thrive in.

3. Many people live in rural areas, and places that had organically sprouted up more "traditional" town squares, have greater walkability because they were smaller hamlets of people, as you stated. The problem with zoning is that you really need a grocery store like...every mile or two? Something that is in walking distance. This isn't really feasible for rural areas, where you have farmers who require multiple acres in order to produce enough food to feed the people that rely on them, or to at least remain financially stable in the long run because of the high risk-reward system related to food production as dependent on climate and weather patterns. Community gardens are one thought, but there too, would have to be all those things consistently built in patterns to accommodate everyone, within a decent walking distance, and not everyone wants to get down in the dirt and grow their own food. There's inefficient use of land in part, not just because of zoning (or maybe it is because of zoning) due to historic preservation districts that prevent the tearing down of buildings. I am in favor of this to an extent, in part because older homes are more beautiful to me for their craftsmanship, which with our current copy-pasta aesthetic, the homes aren't built well, to last, are cheap, and all continue in that soviet-bloc brutalist style. So we preserve, but at the cost of efficient use of space; but how do we determine how much is enough for each person based on their need? How do we determine what is pleasing versus a perspective of utility? Can we have both?

Perhaps you want a garden to feed your family of five, but your neighbor wants a lawn? Is everything equally divvied among all, or does someone grease the palms of the guy who draws the maps (I forgot the word I was looking for) and so-and-so gets a bigger slice of lawn? There's many routes the discussion could take related to urban planning and development than this comment box can accommodate.

That's all I've got. I apologize if that third point doesn't make sense; my child is awake and my brain has now spent all of it's fired neurons before I go get him.

Erik Olson's avatar

I never really understood the hate of suburbs. Maybe I live in a unique one. I have .75 acres. Chickens, bees, giant garden. I can walk to a hardware and grocery store plus a dozen other. Drive 5 minutes We have a town square. Ice-cream shops, music venues, main drag with local shops from the 1900s. Lots of parks and forests. Major metropolitan area is 25 minutes away.

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