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I do wish suburban America was more walkable. If they could change zoning in residential neighborhoods to include a small Main Street carve out that sits inside or adjacent to a community, then that could replicate something of a walkable neighborhood. That’s just one of the urban design solutions that I think future generations will want for quality of life issues. I agree, why drive when you just need one onion or a can of soup?

But, I’ve thought of having a backup country. Then I realized that as hectic as things may be in the US, the more rural suburbs are just a-okay. So that’s what we did. Even Merida, nice as it is, is still in Mexico. And being an expat will always stick with you, no matter how friendly the locals are.

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On the issue of "fair weather Americans", Renee Good and her lover apparently moved to Canada for a while, since Trump was going to imprison all gay people or something. Why they came back I'm not sure, but I'm guessing they discovered living and working in another country is pretty hard. I worked in Holland for a couple of years; ex-pat life is harder than most realize, even temporarily.

As for the proliferation of crazy in America. Robert Kennedy wants it to be about vaccines and processed food; I have my doubts. I wonder if it's more basic: lack of guardrails. America has always been a less guardrailed society than Europe or Asia (esp the latter.) We pride ourselves on our Horatio Alger myth. John Stuart Mill lives larger here than in his native Britain. A wide open society works for about 30% of the population; another 50% can function with difficulty, but the rest really struggle. They need those social and legal guardrails to not drive their lives off a cliff. This depresses me, since it means our crazy is the flip side of the dynamism that characterizes America.

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