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Bobby Lime's avatar

The behavior of the Jenkins couple demonstrates how severely the social contract has broken down.

The following happened to me about forty years ago, when I was young, tall, and, I had been told, looked more imposing than I ever actually was: it was after dark, early evening, and I had brilliantly neglected to plan to get something for supper. No problem, there was a convenience store apart from my apartment complex where I knew I could buy a pound of cheddar cheese. Anyone who doesn't recognize that the ability of someone somewhere to imagine the very possibility of a grilled cheese sandwiches was a gift from God is so deficient in theology I rightly fear for the person's soul.

There were a couple of routes from my apartment to the street, and naturally, I took the shortest one. The area at the turn in the sidewalk which a few steps later would lead me to the door to the parking lot was unusually poorly lit. As I made it, a young woman was just coming in from the parking lot. As she turned, there I was, looming over her. She looked terrified.

"Hi," I smiled as I walked past her. Did I take it personally that she shrank back in a moment's terror when she saw me? Hardly. And did she phone the cops and beg their intercession to track me down and arrest me? If she did, she wasn't taken seriously, and of course, I am sure she did not.

That is how a civilized society works. I wasn't offended that she had that moment's terror. I understood it well. And after she realized I wasn't a rapist, only some dork on his way to the parking lot, she relaxed. A few seconds after it happened, I wished I had thought to say something to her, such as ? Yes, what exactly could I have said to her that would have been as comforting as my not slackening my pace?

We've all had moments which could be called the almost fender - bender. Fortunately, both drivers braked in time. My encounter with that woman was in the same category: the thing that could have happened but didn't, because in that instance, the two participants were morally sane. In our current time, she could have seen my presence as an aggression and I could have seen her reaction to it as a microaggression. That hurt my feelings! I couldn't help being a young male, 6'1", and broad shouldered!

In our current, more hair - trigger awful era there is another phenomenon which many readers will have noticed: the all - but disappearance of the greeting - in - passing of an adult and a child. Who, especially if male, hasn't long ago realized that you run a risk in saying "hello" to a child who doesn't know you? This is a miserable g*ddamned world we have on our hands. We should be executing convicted pedophiles so routinely that the evening news' reporting of each day's total should be no more remarkable than the next day's weather forecast.

And so a society dies.

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WilliamD's avatar

Christopher Caldwell, one of the most insightful political theorists of the present time, wrote about this very thing in 2020s "The Age of Entitlement." It was the most eye opening thing I've read in the last 5 years.

The crux of the biscuit is that the root of all of our political discord is a fundamental divergence in constitutional first principles. Conservatives base their reasoning on the de jure Constitution of the United States circa 1788. For leftists, their Constitution is The Civil Rights Act of 1964 and the myriad legal precedents that have emerged in its application. For virtually all U.S. leftists, THAT constitution, and its extension most recently to things like Gender Ideology and "Climate Justice" will always take precedence over any other legal or moral principle.

That's the one hill they absolutely must be willing to die on, or their whole project falls apart. Regrettably, it might actually come to that.

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